We continued to notice when self-will reclaimed the center, and we returned again and again to humility, curiosity, and compassion.

Step Ten is about practice in everyday life. By this point, we have learned to recognize our patterns and to respond differently. This step helps us keep that awareness alive without turning it into another burden.

Step Ten asks us to pay attention as we go. We notice when the urge to control, explain, or protect ourselves returns. Fear is often the first sign—showing up quietly as urgency, responsibility, or concern. When fear takes the lead, self-will is usually close behind.

When we notice fear and self-will reclaiming the center, we do not punish ourselves. We do not start over or assume we have failed. We simply return—to honesty about what is happening, to humility about our limits, and to attention to the present moment.

Returning may mean pausing before reacting. It may mean admitting we are wrong or unsure. It may mean letting a moment pass without fixing it. These small acts of return keep fear from driving our choices and self-will from quietly taking over again.

Step Ten helps us stay current. Instead of letting resentment, fear, or self-importance build up, we address them as they arise. We learn to correct course gently and quickly, without drama.

This step is not about perfection. Fear and self-will will return, sometimes many times a day. Step Ten reminds us that recovery is not about avoiding mistakes, but about noticing and responding with care.

Over time, this practice becomes more natural. We spend less energy managing ourselves and more time being present. Life feels simpler, even when it is not easy.