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12 Steps
Daily Reflection
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    “Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.”   — Maya Angelou  Step Nine is where willingness meets action. After acknowledging where our self-protection has affected others, we begin to consider wha
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    “To love well is the task in all meaningful relationships.”   — bell hooks, All About Love  Step Eight invites us to see that love is not only an interior feeling but also a way of being responsible for the impact of our lives. Much of w
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   “Grace fills empty spaces, but it can only enter where there is a void to receive it.”     — Simone Weil    Step Seven invites us to notice how full our hands are. They may be full of certainty, effort, self-protection, and the
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   “You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.”   — Mary Oliver    Many of us begin to notice how much effort goes into maintaining certain versions of ourselves. Identities that once helped us survive—being c
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   “Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.”     — James Baldwin    Step Five may be where you begin to notice that secrecy has been part of the suffering. The ego often seems
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   “There is something in every one of you that waits and listens for the sound of the genuine in yourself.”     — Howard Thurman    Step Four invites a different kind of looking. Not a sharp, corrective gaze, but a listening atten
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   “We do not think ourselves into new ways of living; we live ourselves into new ways of thinking.”    — Richard Rohr    Step Three may not be a heroic act of will. It can begin as the quiet recognition that our will has limits. The eg
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   “We think that the point is to pass the test or to overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don’t really get solved. They come together and they fall apart.”   — Pema Chödrön,  When Things Fall Apart     Step Two may be where yo
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   “The quieter you become, the more you can hear.”  — Ram Dass    Step One isn’t about humiliation. It’s about honesty. It’s the moment you begin to notice how noisy the ego is — how busy it is trying to arrange the universe so you can feel
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