"Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes."

—Carl Jung, letter to Fanny Bowditch, 1916

Much of our energy can go outward—toward what others are doing, what circumstances are offering, what the world owes us or threatens to take away. The outside is real, and what happens there matters. But the habit of looking primarily outward can leave us living at the surface of ourselves, reactive and somewhat lost, without quite knowing why.

What Jung points toward is not withdrawal. It is a different quality of attention—one that includes what is happening inside as worth taking seriously. A feeling that doesn't fit the narrative. A resistance we keep explaining away. A longing we haven't quite let ourselves name. These may be less distractions from real life than they are real life, waiting to be acknowledged.

Wendy Etter

Wendy Etter is a graphic designer living in Portland, OR.

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